How to use "gli" in Italian (to him, for him)

11th November 2018

"Gli" can feel tricky at first because it's very different to English. This lesson will show you a simple way to use "gli" in Italian (+ lots of examples).

No.56

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What should you do when a friend forgets his wallet? Find out what Matteo does, and learn how to use that tricky little word “gli” in episode #56 of 5 Minute Italian.

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Today's Italian words

Che cosa fai quando un amico ha bisogno di aiuto? = What do you do when a friend needs help?

Che cosa = what

Fai = you do

Quando = when

Un amico = a friend

Ha bisogno di = needs (literally “has need of”)

Aiuto = help

Gli do una mano = I give him a hand.

Gli = To him

Do = I give

Una mano = A hand

Gli dico = I say to him (Literally: to him, I say)

Che cosa gli dico? = What shall I say to him? (literally: What, to him, I say?)

Gli cucino = I cook for him (For him, I cook)

Quando dimentica il portafoglio? = When he forgets his wallet?

Quando = when

Dimentica = he forgets

il portafoglio = the wallet?

Gli dico che non c’è problema e gli pago la cena = I tell him it’s not a problem and I pay for his dinner.

Gli = to him

Dico = I say

Che = that

Non c’è = there isn’t

Problema = a problem

Non c’è problema = no problem/no worries

e = and

Gli = for him

Pago = I pay

La cena = the dinner

Quando ha fame? = When he’s hungry?

Quando = when

Ha = he has

Fame = hunger

Gli cucino qualcosa = I cook something for him

Gli = for him

Cucino = I cook

Qualcosa = something

Quando è stanco?

When he’s tired?

Quando = when

È = he is

Stanco = tired

Gli offro un caffè = I offer him a coffee.

Gli = to him

Offro = I offer

Un caffè = a coffee

Tu si che sei un buon amico! = You’re such a good friend!

I give to him = Gli do

Gli dico = I say to him

More examples with "gli"

VerbExample
Dire

 

To say

Che cosa gli dico?

 

What shall I say to him? (Literally: What to him I say?)

Dare

 

To give

Gli ho dato il mio numero

 

I gave him my number (Literally: To him, I gave my number)

Offrire

 

To offer

Gli offro una birra

 

I offer him a beer (Literally: To him, I offer a beer)

Parlare

 

To talk

Gli parlo tutti i giorni

 

I talk to him every day (Literally: To him, I speak every the days)

Portare

 

To bring/take

Gli porto un caffè

 

I bring/take him a coffee (Literally: To him, I take a coffee)

Fare

 

To make/do

Gli faccio un caffè

 

I make him a coffee (Literally: for him, I make a coffee)

Scrivere

 

To write

Gli scrivo una lettera

 

I write a letter to him (Literally: to him, I write a letter)

Prestare

 

To lend

Gli presto un libro

 

I lend him a book (Literally: to him, I lend a book)

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Transcript

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Katie: Ciao a tutti e benvenuti a 5 Minute Italian, I’m Katie.

Matteo: And I’m Matteo.

K: Today, we’re talking about a very important and sometimes confusing word “gli”. Before we get into it, remember to head our website where you’ll find bonus materials for this lesson including a quiz, flashcards and a transcript to help remember what you learnt today. Go to joyoflanguages.com/italianpodcast and scroll down to episode #56

Matteo: For now, ascoltiamo la conversazione (let’s listen to the conversation).

Katie: Che cosa fai quando un amico ha bisogno di aiuto?

Matteo: Gli do una mano.

Katie: Quando dimentica il portafoglio?

Matteo: Gli dico che non c’è problema e gli pago la cena

Katie: Quando ha fame?

Matteo: Gli cucino qualcosa.

Katie: Quando è stanco?

Matteo: Gli offro un caffè.

Katie: Tu si che sei un buon amico!

K: So I asked Matteo:  

M: Che cosa fai quando un amico ha bisogno di aiuto?

K: What do you do when a friend needs help? Word for word, that’s:

M:

Che cosa = what

Fai = you do

Quando = when

Un amico = a friend

Ha bisogno di = needs (literally “has need of”)

Aiuto = help

K: And Matteo’s reply was:

M: Gli do una mano

K: I give him a hand. This expression exists in Italian too! Literally

M:

Gli = To him

Do = I give

Una mano = A hand

K: And here we’ve got our first example of the word “gli” which means “to him” or “for him”. Notice that in English, we sometimes cut out the “to”. So we can say “give a present to your brother” or “give your brother a present”. The key thing to know is that if there is the possibility to use “to him” or “for him” in English, you will probably need to use “gli” in Italian. And we say it backwards in Italian. So “I give him is.”

M: Gli do

K: Literally “to him, I give”.

K: Other examples are: “I say to him”

M: Gli dico

K: “to him, I say”

A very common phrase you will hear in Italian is:

M: “Che cosa gli dico?”

K: What shall I say to him? (literally: What, to him, I say?)

K: I cook for him

M: Gli cucino

K: For him, I cook

K: And you’ll hear more examples in the rest of the conversation. I asked Matteo...

M: Quando dimentica il portafoglio?

K: When he forgets his wallet? Literally:

M:

Quando = when

Dimentica = he forgets

il portafoglio = the wallet?

K: Matteo replied:

M: Gli dico che non c’è problema e gli pago la cena.

K: I tell him it’s not a problem and I pay for his dinner. Let’s break that down:

M:

Gli = to him

Dico = I say

Che = that

Non c’è = there isn’t

Problema = a problem

K: This is a useful phrase to learn “non c’è problema” (literally “there’s no problem”). You can use it when you want to say “no problem” or “no worries”.

M: Non c’è problema

K: Let’s finish the phrase

M:

e = and

gli = for him

pago = I pay

la cena = the dinner

K: In Italian, to say “I pay for his dinner” we literally say “for him, I pay the dinner” Gli pago la cena. Next, I asked Matteo:

M: Quando ha fame?

K: When he’s hungry? Literally:

M:

Quando = when

Ha = he has

Fame = hunger

K: And Matteo replied:

M: Gli cucino qualcosa

K: I cook something for him

M:

Gli = for him

Cucino = I cook

Qualcosa = something

K: Next, I asked:

M: Quando è stanco?

K: When he’s tired?

M:

Quando = when

È = he is

Stanco = tired

K: Then Matteo replied:

M: Gli offro un caffè

K: I offer him a coffee.

M:

Gli = to him

Offro = I offer

Un caffè = a coffee

Katie: Finally, you heard me say:

Matteo: Tu si che sei un buon amico!

Katie: You’re such a good friend! This structure “tu si che sei” is a way of adding emphasis. I can say “you’re a good friend”.

M: “Sei un buon amico”

K: But if I add “tu si che” it’s a bit like saying “you’re such a” in English.

M: Tu si che sei un buon amico.

K: Alright, before we go, a couple more things about “gli”. Firstly the most common words you’ll hear “gli” with are “dare” (to give) and “dire” (to say). So if you only remember two things from today’s lesson, remember these two phrases.

K: I give to him

M: Gli do

K: I say to him

M: Gli dico

K: Those two little phrases will take you a long way towards using “gli” correctly.

So we learnt “to him” or “for him”. Next time, you'll learn "to them" and I'll give you a hint, it'll be quite easy if you've already done this lesson! For now, let’s listen to the conversation again:

Katie: Che cosa fai quando un amico ha bisogno di aiuto?

Matteo: Gli do una mano.

Katie: Quando dimentica il portafoglio?

Matteo: Gli dico che non c’è problema e gli pago la cena

Katie: Quando ha fame?

Matteo: Gli cucino qualcosa.

Katie: Quando è stanco?

Matteo: Gli offro un caffè.

Katie: Tu si che sei un buon amico!

K: There are many other words that use “gli” in Italian. If you want to learn more, you’ll find a table of these with example sentences, by heading over on our website joyoflanguages.com/Italianpodcast and scrolling down to episode 56.

Ciao for now, or as we say in Italian.

M: Alla prossima!

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